And you’d be willing to do anything to never feel this way again. And when that happens, we feel stupid and weak, and helpless. Why would someone who is gifted with empathy, love and emotions want to throw it all away to turn into a zombie without emotions? Why you’re hurting and why it’s okay to feel hurtĮverybody hurts. It’s possible, and we’ll show you how to be emotionless and harden your heart like a rock. And on the other hand, we have you, on the other end of the spectrum, wanting to learn ways to feel heartless and become emotionless. It’s a strange place to be in, isn’t it? Wanting to know how to be emotionless and cold? On one hand, we have psychopaths and narcissists at one end of the spectrum who can’t empathize or experience normal feelings. Learning to control and understand your emotions Learning to be emotionless and heartless vs. This VOA Special English program, WORDS AND THEIR STORIES, was written by Marilyn Rice Christiano. A person might say that everybody but him got a pay raise, that he was left out in the cold. It means not getting something that everybody else got. Out in the cold is an expression often heard. Several popular songs in recent years were about cold-hearted men or cold-hearted women who, without feeling, broke the hearts of their lovers. Now a cold-hearted person is someone who has no sympathy. Someone who is a cold fish could be cold-hearted. A cold fish does not offer much of himself to anyone. But it is a person who is unfriendly, unemotional and shows no love or warmth. Or, to someone who has lied about you to others.Ī cold fish is not a fish. You may give a cold shoulder to a friend who has not kept a promise he made to you. The expression probably comes from the physical act of turning your back toward someone, instead of speaking to him face-to-face. You give someone the cold shoulder when you refuse to speak to them. You are likely to get cold feet about being president when you understand the situation. All the work of the organization will be your responsibility. But then you learn that all the other officers have resigned. For example, you agree to be president of an organization. The expression means being afraid to do something you had decided to do. But there is an expression - to get cold feet - that has nothing to do with cold or your feet. Heavy socks can warm your feet, if your feet are really cold. He seemed to kill for no reason, and with no emotion, as if taking someone's life meant nothing.Ĭold can affect other parts of the body. The killer murdered someone, not in self-defense, or because he was reacting to anger or fear. They may do brutal things to others, and not by accident.įor example, a newspaper says the police are searching for a cold-blooded killer. People who show no human emotions or feelings, for example, are said to be cold-blooded. Maybe that is why there are so many expressions that use the word cold.įor centuries, the body's blood has been linked closely with the emotions. Now, the VOA Special English program WORDS AND THEIR STORIES.Ĭold weather has a great effect on how our minds and our bodies work.
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